Thursday, February 5, 2026

6 Thinking Hats System of Edward de bono

The 6 Thinking Hats is a systematic, structured, parallel-thinking framework designed by physician and thought-organization expert Edward de Bono. The framework is designed for better decision making, problem-solving, reducing conflict, and exploring any issue from six different perspectives.

 

Each thinking hat plays a distinct function and role. Each thinking role is identified with a colored symbolic “thinking hat.” By mentally wearing and switching “hats,” you can easily focus or redirect thoughts, a conversation, or an interaction. Looking at things from these perspectives ensures that you direct your thinking in the best possible way rather than letting it run on auto-pilot.

 

1. 1. White Hat (This type of thinking focuses on facts, just facts. Separate facts from feelings. It's all about information. It focuses on available data, facts, and identifying information gaps.)

2.    2. Yellow Hat (This type of thinking focuses on benefits, brightness, and optimism. Balancing fear with possibility. It explores the positive, optimistic, and beneficial aspects of a decision.)

3.    3. Blue Hat (This thinking hat is all about management, direction, and organization of thought. It enables the person to stop getting stuck in a spiral and set an agenda that will steer them forward. It's a control mechanism to minimize stress and stay organized.)

4.    4, Green Hat (This thinking hat is all about options, creativity; the possibilities, alternatives, and new ideas. Is there another way to do this? Is there an alternative to this? This hat questions like these.)

5.    5, Black Hat (As the name suggests, this thinking hat focuses on identifying the dark or negative things, the risks before they create trouble. It Identifies potential problems, risks, dangers, and critical, logical reasons for caution. When used wisely, this thinking hat is tremendously powerful, but when overused, it can amplify the problems and generate unnecessary doubts or fears.)

6.    6. Red Hat (Red Thinking Hat is all about feelings, emotions, hunches, intuitions, and gut reactions. This thinking process calls for investigating, understanding, and being aware of our deepest feelings, fears, likes, dislikes, loves, and hates, so instead of driving your life, you take the driver seat and direct them)

 

 

 


Saturday, January 10, 2026

That is love...#poetry


When you aren't afraid

to have unshakable belief in yourself

that is love

 

When you aren't ashamed to adorn your style, your personalities

Even if they are unusual, old-fashioned

that is love

 

When you embrace both your sorrows and joys

your collection of hurts, your boxes of thoughts

with gentle hands

that is love

 

When you find yourself jostled and falling into a dark place

And still know, that all you need to bounce back

is to sit by yourself and sip a cup of coffee

that is love

 

When you can listen to the symphonies of your heart

and trust them to decide the rhythm and the melody of your life

that is love

 

At nights, when you gaze up at the stars

And see your name written in their glitter

that is love

 

When you dive into the ocean of yourself

and discover something that won't abandon you ever

that wwould stand by you for ever and ever

that is love

 

When you spend endless hours

programming deprogramming your mind, like a cosmic engineer

Because you will always choose the best for yourself

that is love

 

When life hurts you, or people

and you decide to walk away, because you understand that you can only love people, you can't save them

that iis love

 

When times get tough and situations harsh

but you keep going, you don't quit

because you know your greatness

that is love

 

When it gets too noisy and swarms of  echoes invade your peace

when ghosts of people from your past try to disrupt your innate joy

and you continue to look within your heart

shining your light

that is love

 

When you set yourself absolutely free, let your crazy, poetic self just be

when you aren't scared to dance like nobody's watching

that is love

 

When shadows tap on your shoulders trying to stop you

and you look in their face, smile and keep walking

that is love

 

When you aren't afraid to be afraid

yet you dwell in fearlessness

that is love

 

When you know that your mind can make you sick

and still have faith in the power and wisdom of your heart

that is love

 

When you invite your fears, your griefs, your worries and shames and pains

and cradle them and kiss their tears

not shoo them away

that is love

 

When the pages of your notebooks rumble and burst with the bizarre stories and fantasies of your creepy life

and yyou let them be

 Without trying to change them

that is love

 

When you aren't shy to seek out those you can share your life with, those you can cuddle or laugh with

and still understand that if there's a place where love springs from

its oonly and only your own heart

that is love

 

This, the one that you see in the mirror

that is love

 

you, my friend

is love

yes you....love

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Sunday, January 4, 2026

Amplified Absurdity Technique of Storytelling #writing #storytelling

In the trenches of a secluded world lived a woman who sat by herself, drenched in utter grief after her lover departed to another world to fetch some fish and never returned. She sat by herself, missing him. From day till night, she sat soaked in melancholy, waiting for him, his face swimming before her eyes. 


When twilight overshadowed the sunlight, she sat in her garden gazing at the moon, thinking that he too would be gazing at it, remembering her. With the coming of morning sunlight, she pulled out her diary and spent her day writing poems of loss, depression, grief, melancholy, and yearning. 


Will he ever return and meet her? The question constantly hovered above her head. As time went by and she couldn’t hold back her longing, she started talking to the trees, to the birds, even to the winds. She would tell the wind to go and see whether he was on his way to her. She would ask the Sun whether she could see her lover in another world. She would tell the trees to rustle so fiercely that the scent of their leaves rushed through the sky and reached him. 


At night, she would whisper to the stars, telling them secrets only he knew about her, telling them about the stories and fantasies she shared with him before he departed to another world. Why he departed, she didn’t know. Years passed. He didn’t return. The books in her home were overflowing with words she felt pulsing in her heart when she missed him.


And then, one day, someone came to her house and rang the doorbell. She opened the door. Standing there was the Mad Hatter with a bottle of coke, a packet of potato chips, and a box of novels. 


She grabbed the bottle, guzzled down the coke, ripped the packet, wolfed down the chips, snatched the box, and flanked shut the door to slip inside her blanket and read all the novels.


 

In the words of non-writers, this story would probably come under the category of bad jokes or gross humor. But for writers, this can be a fabulous technique to add some spice to their piece of writing.

 

The technique is “Amplified Absurdity Technique.” As the name suggests, it presents a piece of writing or a narrative in a way that depicts the absurdity of human life in an amplified manner.

 

In contrast to Edgar Allan Poe’s Single Effect Theory I explained in the earlier video that is based on spinning the entire story based on one, singular emotion, the Amplified Absurdity Technique involves an abrupt, sudden break or jump in the initial emotion, often catching the reader by surprise.

 

When writing a piece with this technique, the goal is to maintain the Single Effect right until the final line or the ending, and then jolting the reader or the viewer into an abrupt twist that is trivial, pathetic, darkly ironic, or grossly humorous. The idea is to twist the initial emotion into an absurdity so instead of following its typical loop of neurons, it takes an absurd turn and forms a new neural pathway. Right when the initial emotion is at its peak, the twist sends the viewer or the reader into a jaw-dropping burst of dissonance.

 

The technique is based on the fundamental nature of human mind. Human mind is not a solid block. It is a malleable entity, just like clay. Just as a jeweller uses raw gold or silver to craft a variety of jewels, earrings, bangles, and necklaces, the mind can be shifted or changed according to what your intelligence wants, in a given moment. While Poe’s Single Effect Theory re-enforces a particular emotion and amplifies it to the peak, the Amplified Absurdity Technique drops the entire amplified cloud of emotion with a splash of humor, irony, or an eye-opening sense of life’s weirdness.

 

It magnifies the psychological conditioning or programming in the person’s mind, and then suddenly shatters it with violation of expectation by inserting an unexpected absurdity in the path of the initial emotion. For the writer or the storyteller, Amplified Absurdity is also cathartic and mind-bending, as it literally enables them to express a difficult emotion and finally shift it.

 

The concept can also be related to H.P. Lovecraft’s ideas of “Horror of the Mundane,” or the “Cosmic Horror,” that work on seeing the ridiculous in the sublime and the sublime in the ridiculous. Lovecraft famously re-instated through his work that human concerns are irrelevant to the vast, indifferent universe. 



The Amplified Absurdity technique helps the writer and the reader to embrace a difficult emotion and right when the emotion is amplified to its peak, then introduce a dissonance spike by creating a sudden, jarring jump in the emotion. From dread to humor, for instance. It’s just like a high-speed car taking an abrupt turn.

 

The concept is just like the character of the Mad Hatter in Alice in Wonderland, whose stories nobody believes but they make people feel good and cheerful. Amplified Absurdity, this concept relies on the fact that the state of human mind can be changed with a story that is absolutely weird, absurd, or illogical. And hence, it can be a powerful tool, not just for writing and storytelling, but also for self-reflection.

 

In the above story, the technique amplifies the emotion of grief to its peak, ultimately leading it into a sharp drop to advertisement-style humor and therefore, cunningly twisting its pathway.

 

This technique can also be observed in a scene in the Bollywood movie 3 Idiots.

 

To delve deeper into the science behind how this Amplified Absurdity Technique works, think of a cute white rabbit dressed in a clothing that makes it look like a frightening fire-spitting dragon. You make the reader “believe” in the terror of the dragon and right when they are frightened to the peak, you violate their expectation and unmask the dragon to reveal the rabbit. First of all, this twist creates an incongruity, a cognitive dissonance, a defamiliarization, a dopamine spike. It disrupts the regular rhythm of thinking and bends it to generate a new thought pattern in the brain. By introducing an absurd element, the writer forces the reader and themselves to feel a difficult emotion to a heightened intensity and then release it and feel something different.

 

The technique is a masterful exploitation of the mind’s basic nature to shift the current state of mind, in a cathartic or a positive manner.

 

The Neural Science of Amplified Absurdity Technique

This is how the Amplified Absurdity Technique works in the brain. At first, the target emotion is amplified to peak intensity with consistent repetition of high-stake elements and imagery. As the emotion reaches it peak, it activates the Amygdala, the part of the brain that deals with processing emotions. 



The amygdala signals the other department in the brain called the hypothalamus. Hypothalamus is responsible for triggering a fight-or-flight response, which floods the person’s body with adrenaline or stress hormones.

 
Sensing the commotion in hypothalamus, another two parts of the brain get activated. A part called the Temporal Parietal Junction (TPJ) registers the abrupt shock, the sudden introduction of absurdity, or the surprising break in the expectation. 



Another part, called the Anterior Cingulate Cortex (ACC), starts processing the “conflict” generated in the brain as a result of violated expectation, the conflict between the predicted outcome and reality. The extreme mismatch then activates the Prefrontal Cortex (PFC), a part that deals with flexible thinking.



The incongruity breaks the brain’s meaning management model and jolts it into existential meaninglessness, which can sometimes be cathartic and mind-changing.

 

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Friday, January 2, 2026

This life....Happy New Year Song #poetry



This life, is a dream

A dream within a dream within a dream

A fleeting glimpse of the rainbow we call as “our world”

 

This life, is a labyrinth

A labyrinth spun intricately with stories

Stories we tell ourselves, stories we hear from others

Stories we believe in, stories we refuse to believe

 

This life, is a puzzle

Piece after piece after piece

we assemble it in time

only to watch them scatter again

 

This life, is a song

A meticulous composition of rhythms and sounds

A bittersweet symphony of pleasures and pains

Woo! Wheesh! Pff! Huh! Ummm! No! Yoohoo! Yay! Oh no!

 

This life, is an overcoming

Overcoming of yourself

Of who you thought you were, of what you thought you needed

 

This life, is also letting go

Letting go of what’s already gone

Letting go of what pulls you away from what is

 

This life, is also a becoming

The becoming of who you already are

The becoming of who you are designed to be

 

This life, is a process

The process of rise and fall

The process of high and low

 

This life, is a book

The big book of years

Years come, years go

But in the end, they leave

Stories, stories of horror and stories of romance

Stories of tragedy and stories of mystery

 

This life, is a dream

And as this year comes to a close

Make sure you recycle your old dream

And create new ones

It’s the time to slow down, to reflect, and release

So you can start anew, with a new dream, a greater dream

 

Because, even though life is a dream

A dream within a dream within a dream

You are the one who choose what to dream

This life, is a dream

But what a dream!

 

Happy New Year! 

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Sunday, December 14, 2025

Edgar Allen Poe’s Single Effect Theory – A Technique to Craft Crisp Short Stories - The Frightening Scream

 


The setting sun filled the sky with orange, but when she looked up from her room’s window, the sky appeared grey. It was a cold, winter evening and after 6 pm, a clock on her room’s wall had stopped ticking. Outside, a street dog yelled a frightening call. He must be feeling cold, she wondered. 



She flung a thick pink shawl on her shoulders and reached for the attic to get an old sweater from the trunk. The wooden stairs were rickety and old. As she climbed, they creaked. 



She hadn’t climbed this staircase in the past three months. The lights upstairs needed to be changed. Most of them had their glass broken by an aggressive storm that came a few months ago, in the monsoon. She had to carry a lamp as she climbed the stairs. As she put one foot after the other, the lamp dangling from her fingers oscillated from side to side like a pendulum. As it did, it spilled pools of glowing yellow light on the giant paintings that hung on the side walls. The gold trimmed edges of the paintings glittered in the lamplight. Some pools revealed expressionless faces of her family members that looked as if they were gazing right at her, not in a happy way. 



She reached the attic and unbolted the door. Everything inside was dusty. The murmuring dust particles formed a disturbing halo around the lamp. She walked to the bronze trunk and tried to open it. It wouldn’t open. Its super-old antique handle seemed to be rusting with years of neglect. She placed the lamp on top of an empty shelf. To squeeze out maximum strength of her muscles, she stretched her right leg from the back and started pulling on the trunk’s stubborn handle vigorously. 



It must have been close to five minutes when the handle appeared to surrender to her will. She pulled it from the knob, swung it upwards, and settled it against the wall. The inside of the trunk looked like another world in contrast to the suffocating desert of dust that surrounded the trunk. 



Lounging within the dark blue velvet lining of the trunk, there were expensive and colorful fabrics, apothecary-style glass bottles of perfume, thick hardcover books, and boxes of mysterious trinkets that glittered in the lamplight. She bent down to dive into this vast ocean of luxury and pulled out a silk bag. 



She pulled a string and unfastened the bag and pulled out an orange sweater. The sweater appeared to have been sewen for a toddler. Above one sleeve, near the left shoulder, there was a ripped strand of orange wool. For just as much time as the sound of a sparrow’s chirp lasted outside, she stared at the sweater, lost in thoughts. 


Then, as if jolted back to the present moment, she flumped the trunk close, grabbed the lamp, and rushed down the stairs. The stairs creaked even more, the echoes of their groaning sounds screaming at her as she walked away towards the front door. She flanked the door open and stepped out on the street, where she thought, was the dog that was yelling the frightening calls due to cold. 



The dog wasn’t there. She stood there for a long time. She looked here and there, on the sides and around the neighbours’ gardens. The dog had disappeared. Where did he go? Will he die in the winter? She looked at the orange sweater. If he would have waited just a little bit more, she could have saved him. With the saddening thought possessing her, she walked into the house and closed the door tight shut. 



She walked to her room, turned off the lights, and slipped inside the blanket on her bed. Moon’s uncaring white light entered through the window and spilled itself here and there. The curvy crests and valleys of her blanket cast shadows on the ceiling. She was still sitting, not lying down for sleep. 




She could not know whether it was her time to sleep yet, because the clock had stopped ticking. So she took out the orange sweater clenched under her elbow. Faint shadows of a tree leaves crept across the floor. She didn’t notice it. She was busy looking at the sweater, as if recalling something she thought she had forgotten. 



Then it came to her, tumbling like a rush of chemicals inside her body. She couldn’t see in the dark but she knew that droplets of sweat were bubbling up on her forehead, inside her chest, and between her legs. She remembered it, scene by scene, sound by sound. As she did, she started crying, at first in faint sobs, then in full-blown screams. 


The frightening screams shook awake a street dog from his sleep. He thought someone around was feeling cold. He shivered. In the sky, the moon hid behind a cluster of clouds.  

 

What emotion this short story triggered inside you? You’ll probably say, grief. And although, there are bits of horror, mystery, and humor in the story as well, the primary emotion that it evoked was grief. You may like to call its emotional cousins like melancholy, depression, sadness, or pain, but essentially it was grief.



For this story, grief is the primary pintuck that is holding together the entire fictional narrative. This illustrates what the celebrated writer Edgar Allan Poe called the “single effect theory,” also known by phrases like “unity of impression” and “unity of effect.”

 


According to Poe, the “single effect theory” is a brilliant way to learn how to craft a short story. The theory states that a short story should revolve around a single, intense emotion, such as dread, grief, anger, fear, etc. You can refer to Robert Plutchik’s Wheel of Emotions for a full list of emotions you can use as starting prompts for your story.

 


The idea of Poe’s Single Effect Theory is that every sentence, every incident, every detail, or character should converge to provoke one, singular, pre-conceived, desired emotion in the reader. It can also be a single psychological or intellectual state, such as confusion or contemplation. Nothing that is extraneous to this singular state should be added to the story.

 


It’s like, looking at the story as if it were a machine engineered with various elements where each element worked together to serve a singular purpose. You can also imagine it with the example of a song’s guitar notes. The notes might have different leads, multiple chords, but there is always a dominant chord that guides the rest of the melody.

 


Poe believed that writing isn’t a random craft born out of spontaneous bursts of inspiration. Rather, it’s quite alike solving a mathematical problem. A story doesn’t come out from a random burst of inspiration, but is constructed piece by piece with words, sounds, images, and other elements. He, himself, applied this technique in his work, where he explored the darkest recesses of his mind, the madnesses, the obsessions, the psychological terrors. 



His poem, The Raven, is centered around the emotion of deep melancholy. Many of his works express the emotion of poetic beauty often linked to sadness and loss.




His “Single Effect Theory” is a fascinating lesson that also teaches us a way of exploring our own inner psyche, where we can magnify each emotion and lay it out bare and naked on the paper for our mind to see and reflect. It’s a focused meditation into the self carried out on the vehicle of words, via writing. It’s both a prompt and the way, whichever way you like to see it, and use it.



 

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